“Follow your heart”, “Just do what you think is right” are two common themes young millennials pass around today. How many Christians do you know who show up to church on Sunday’s, after a week full of slandering words, deceitful lies or nights of partying? Our relationship with Christ becomes merely a check off box, an act of going with the motions. As inviting as the “Follow your heart message” is it can be devastating to our spiritual lives. Our salvation comes from our faith, not our feelings (Ephesians 2:8). Feelings & emotions are inconsistent, continuously changing due to the tides of circumstances around us. Before we even realize it we become victims to our own thoughts which often lead us to making ungodly, unwise, self-centered decisions. Instead of dying to self, and surrendering daily we spend our time trying to desperately control our failings, fighting for the next fleeting pleasure. Maybe we do set a day, cup of coffee in...